For most of us, there comes a time in our lives when we need some people to advise us on what steps to take for an after-effect action. Like whether or not to marry that guy/woman who's broke, change religions, keep a pregnancy, quit a job, invest in shares, you name it
But most often than not, we usually have an answer deep in our brains and we just tend to look for someone to tap it out. Someone to "identify" that answer in your head and pop it out for you. Coz let's face it, who ever woke up not knowing what to do with his/her current situation and asked a passer-by for his "advice" that made him change his blank mind?
I don't believe in counseling. Mostly because these therapists are a bunch of money suckers who always tell you what you know,. they know how to "tap" from you your own advise.
So I guess, next time you want advice from people, free therapy and the likes, just sit your own head down and be sincere to yourself. You always have an answer. Granted, it HEALS to talk PAINFUL stuff out,...but You just don't need to ask ten people if the guy in your life is a keeper, or if you have to invest in the real estate. Go out there and do it
Life f**** us all differently. There's never a know-it-all in our midst. Before you drag a stool round the fire and call over friends for a pitty chit chat party, drowning yourself in everybody's opinions, ...Learn from your own experiences and experiences of others, and make YOUR own logical choices...